This is very different from the Western ideology where most women believe that their greatest dreams have nothing to do with having children or finding a handsome man to marry . First career and then marriage, maybe children (but more realistically in my case marriage and dogs). Despite the fact that marriage is not the first dream of most Western women, beauty and pleasant appearance for the opposite sex are very important. Being thin with perfect skin is what Westerners perceive as beautiful, and that would be fine, each country has its own concepts of beauty; However, as the West, especially America, has become a world super power, our concepts of love, marriage and beauty are changing and shaping other countries, which may ultimately lead to the change of cultures.