The wife's desires for a girl may also be altruistic in their eyes saying that they are protecting her from a life of poverty since they have not yet had a child who can ensure their prosperity. “Dowry deaths” are also an ancient tradition that is a custom for the religion. But due to the serious problem of gendercide, the government has banned the use of dowry. But because the tradition is so heavy and rich, it still happens. Families want to live up to expectations and even if it is not “required” it is still nice for one family to compensate the other in social standing. The problem is that they still see women as a burden even if they are not required to provide a dowry. It is an age-old tradition to give a dowry that is bad for females. Old ways need to be adapted and the culture itself needs to understand that it's okay not to provide a dowry. This is the only way change for women can come and ensure their success and longevity