There were a tremendous amount of barriers and obstacles that everyone involved faced in their effort to address Lia's medical condition. Martin also says, "'I gave them every chance...you saw how patiently I explained things to them.' He sighed, long and slow. 'I do my best.'" Despite all their efforts to try to help Lia, the doctors felt their efforts were in vain. The frustration of both parties trying to understand each other continues to grow. without any solution. This shows how impossible it is to “Americanize” all immigrants who come to the United States. Between the cultural values, the language barrier and the difference in opinions, assimilation becomes impossible they are impossible to eradicate. They are too resistant to change and it is out of the question to make everyone change in an instant