He discovers too late that she isn't as religious as he wants her to be. The Bible states: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Indeed, what association does justice have with lawlessness? Or what fellowship is there between light and darkness” (2 Corinthians 6:14, ESV)? Additionally, Brad can avoid even more heartache before marriage by attending premarital counseling. Of course, this depends on Brad deciding that she is still the right person for him and telling him her position on saving his soul. In short, Brad is too quick to put into practice a simple phrase like “the salvation of my soul.” He can avoid heartache and pain when he chooses to follow God's Word and pray before acting on a whim. The Bible says: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not rely on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths” (Proverbs 3:5-6, ESV). As has been noted, it is important to have effective communication and trust between two people. After all, it is what God wants for his spouses