IntroductionDivorce is a very widespread phenomenon in our society, Divorce is the separation of the couple for various reasons, Increase in divorce cases in our society, “The first place is Korea South and Lithuania. Lithuania is a small country in Europe while South Korea is a country in Asia Apparently, it seems that the qualities have not stopped the divorce rate of the respective countries. The divorce rate for both is 3.05%” (SiliconIndia, 2012), produces divorces with negative pressure effects on parents and children, just as children's reactions to the death of a parent are not very different from the reaction of children from divorced parents, even if the child was in contact with his parents. Causes of divorce In the beginning, there are many causes for getting divorce, including: Lack of interest of women for herself, her children and her husband, this is an important pillar for family building, attention and decorations are a good thing, but excessive decorations are undesirable. Sometimes it happens that the wife is worried about the house and children, she may be worried about attention overload and go to a hairdresser, fashion boutiques and beauty salons to maintain her beauty and neglect the house, resulting in impatient behavior of men and therefore lead to divorce. Knowledge of the wife to marry her husband to a second woman, who can not afford it if it was jealousy or feeling offended unforgivable. Effects of Divorce Divorce is one of the most difficult situations experienced by any man, when a man loses his wife and his family Everything seems to fall apart or break, and when he finds himself alone and there is no help from anyone a been tormented... middle of paper... someone from your family or even a friend, to be a third party is trying to bridge the gap in views between you and find solutions together. In case you have children, know that separation is not easy, neither for you nor for the children, so take this point and your wife will participate in the children's affairs even if you are in a temporary phase separation situation. After the solution If things between you start to reform, you need to follow several things together until you get back to normal, namely: Don't beat your wife to quickly return to your life together and give her time to come back to life you two to the fullest ., try talk to your wife more openly and encourage her to engage in any activities or interests you love. Give her a rose or express your love, so she can gradually forget any hurt she may have caused.